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Making friends with death (s) , to truly live.

19/5/2021

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I want to die and why it is a healthy thing. 

Let me share with you about embracing death fearlessly so that you can allow yourself and those around you to truly live freely and vibrantly. 
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You would never think that smiley happy looking face of mine would be thinking such a thing, surrounded by my two beautiful friends I share wonderful resonant connections. I want to die !
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I / We are living the dream. It is true, I AM living my best life each day, I am a Queen living my heavenly life ( reality ) feeling very spoilt and ecstatically delighted most days by how magical life can be.

I AM blessed beyond measure and yet a part of me feels I am full of shit and know nothing.

A part of me is exhausted of the old ways of being a human on this planet via the egoic persona limitation, conditions and separation games. That part wants to die along with the old earth consciousness.

She needs to allow herself to die; to surrender and release the remainder of resistances, attachments and inner battling of right / wrong / good / bad / have / have not’s / and so on.

This is required to allow even more of my true authentic self to shine on through this earthly personality and body.

I am done with the old version of me that learnt to fit into a system of inauthenticity and survival.

Even though I have learned to reduce and manage my duality symptoms considerably to once upon a time. I just can’t keep going on anymore in the same old patterns of self doubt , self denial, self disgust, feeling the distortions within my self esteem, lacking self trust, holding back my inner voice, believing a old story that I am shy and that people don’t like or welcome my light, fear of my own power as light , feeling awkward to freely express divine love and safe enough to receive love freely, self judgements, giving air time to the inner critic ( wounded past self ) , playing into avoidance of situations and circumstances that may cause me to feel the unwanted pain of rejection , abandonment, non-acceptance or feeling too much / too little when I am being my true authentic spontaneous creative expression.

That part of me must give way now and surrender to a deeper part of me that trandsends time and space.

That part of me is being strongly invited NOW to surrender her little egoic will and align to thy will of my higher self ; deeper expansive self ; the true authentic self ; the essence of whom I am before I came into this body and whom I will be when I transition from my biological body.

The old aspects of self must die to her old ways of acting & not acting upon inspired ideas, of expressing & not expressing inspired thoughts and words as they are not serving my divine mission ( passions ) and intentions for this lifetime anymore in these new energies and consciousness to move into the fullness of potentials awaiting to be realised.

So my friends I invite you to not shy away from the death of your old self as perceived through a old paradigm of references points, distortions, conditionings, traumas, ancestral patterns and identity hats.

Set yourself free ! ! !

Your true value, worthiness and empowerment’s is beyond measure.

Death is not so scary when we make friends with it.

Death is truly part of the natural evolutionary nature of life. Each night we go to sleep we allow that day to die and the next morning a new day to be born and then lived. There is all kinds of death like that of a relationship, a job and body image. The cells in our bodies continual die off to be broken down and renewed. 

TO TRULY LIVE one must truly embrace death and die again and again and again .

To truly live one must become more familiar and comfortable with the full cycle of LIFE which is birth, life and death. When we avoid death at all costs we become fearful of change. Change is natural and truly nothing stayed the same.  Can you see that this is the insanity that eventually makes us prisoners to our self imposed restrictions and resistances to the nature of truly living and embracing each experience of life for its full potential to be realised.  This is a continuous cycle and evolution which enriches the soul incarnated as each one of us on earth living a human life. Life is a gift and through the misguidedness of our egoic mind we have turned into a great burden and suffering living in fear, avoidances and distrust. 

So I celebrate death and I celebrate life and living and birthing anew with you.

May we know and accept that it is ok to openly grieve our loss without shame or apology.

Grief is important to be felt to truly honour the death process . So welcome those tears as much as you welcome laugher and smiles as they honour the life that has been lived and has brought you to these new moments of self awareness, inisights, surrendering, clarity, reevaluations, adaptation , desire, peace, creativity, passions and eventual readiness for something new to resurrect you into greater heights of possibilities and fulfillments.

News alert : Suffering is optional.

“ What you resist will persist “ and has to lead to pain and exhaustion until I / U / WE finally surrender the little will and fighting for ones limitation for a deeper and greater will that holds a much bigger vision of whom we are becoming.

Beyond and through the sadness, grief, anger, frustrations, rage, and sense of deep loss is pure unbridled joy and deeper expansions of unconditional love and fresh new inspired creativity awaiting us to allow it into expression.

Namaste.

The light & the dark dualities within me acknowledge these same extremes and polarities playing out and looking for resolutions and harmony within you.

Beyond these contrasts of creations there is a unified field. Zero point field.

I’ll meet you there.
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Amen

I AM THAT I AM

To go deeper into embracing the ego death and what prayer really is and how to pray in a way that transforms your experience. Please join myself & Eileen Meyer as we dive into these topics and more in this wonderful authentic conversation. VIDEO LINK HERE or find the video just below. 

#compassion #EmbodiedPresence #gentleness

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