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The VALUE of caring for SELF so you can CARE joyfully for others.

22/6/2022

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Hello fellow Human Family Member,

How are you managing to navigate these fascinating and crazy times ?

Learning how to balance your energies ( Self Regulate ) in BODY-MIND-EMOTIONS is so important right now. There is a lot going on in the outer world views ( news ) that can take you off centre and trap you in a perpetual state of fear thinking, worries and anxieties about the future if you are not paying attention to your inner well-being and making it a priority.

" You can't be sick enough to help a sick person be well ."

Balancing your use of technology and time spent on devices with dedicated daily self care routines, time in nature, bare feet on the earth and mindful breathing practices are very much required to calm ones nervous system to release the build up of tensions, over thinking and feelings of overwhelm in the mind, the body and emotions.

" Self care is not a luxury " anymore on earth, it is a necessity ! ! !
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YOU ARE WORTHY OF WELLNESS.

YOUR HEALTH IS YOUR REAL WEALTH.

IT REALLY IS A QUESTION OF WHAT DO YOU VALUE MOST WHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONE . . . Do you know what you core values are ? If not, why not ? 

So much of the way we have been taught about life is backward to how life actually works when working in harmony with itself. These times are showing us where we are functioning way out of harmony with ourselves, this planet and one another and thus why much change is required in our thinking, speaking and behaviours. 

Life is a inner game that gets reflected back to us from the outside. To change the outer, you have to make changes on the inner first. The example often used is it is like looking in the mirror. You have to smile first in order for the mirror to reflect your smile back to you and the same is true with your sad unhappy face and so on . . . !!!

Knowing The Deeper WHY of what we do can take us through the challenging moments more gracefully with faith and a greater sense of purpose. 

One of my big WHY's to being dedicated passionately to supporting and teaching people in the values of promoting self care for over a decade in Hanmer Springs via my M.V.M. Holistic Day Spa & VL Wellness Retreat is because I know that truly cared for people care for others naturally, it is innate to whom we are. This philosophy and understanding is something I introduce to my students as the foundation of my 50hr certified Holistic Intuitive Massage Trainings.

" The key to sustainable well-being is balancing caring for self and caring for others. "

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Hats off to all Parents during these years. 

Cared for parents through a good massage, yoga session, nutritious food, time in nature to slow down and reflect, nurturing conversations and gaining empowering wellness tools will care better for their kids ( the next generations of thought leaders, artist, carers and inventors etc ).


The simply truth of it is, when parents and people in general feel cared for and are going off a 'full cup of balanced inner resources and reserves' they will have more energy, patience, tolerance, enthusiasm, presence, joy, peace, creativity and playfulness to offer the immediate family and extending out from there to the greater human family via daily interactions of all kinds.

When parents reserves of energies are depleted they become tired and out of balance, they will display short attention span and possibly more abrupt temperaments. Life begins to feel more like a burden to get through than a joy to live and share together, even the fun things can seem like another task to get done and ticked off the never ending list of "TO DO's".

Parents can become more serious, distracted, fearful and have underlining hidden anxieties about life, their ability to cope and begin to loss hope. They can become simply reduced to just surviving day by day by doing what they think they have to rather than feeling free and supported enough to actually do what they enjoy doing.

To children ( & we all were one at some stage ) , parents are like gods. Children are super tuned in and sensitive to what is really going on in their parents thought, feelings and behaviours and what gets role modelled to them. The connection is more a translation of feelings ( energies ) rather than just words spoken.

Often what may be played out in a child has more to do with what is hidden and yet unacknowledged within the psyche of a parent. A child will most certainty pick up a parents underlining anxiety. While a parent may have learnt to cope with this, a child may not and thus display this anxiety in a more pronounced way that it cannot be overlooked or ignored.​​

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This is why it is not just your physical health that you need to care for these days, it is your mental and emotional just as much, if not more.

REMEMBER . . .

In our greatest challenges often emerges our greatest clarity, truth, discernment of values, healing empowerment and a inner strength ( capacity for resilience ). All the best books are written with these kinds of recovering heroic stories lines interwoven into them. 

In the words of Yoda from Star Wars " May the force be with you " and guide you gracefully with wisdom, courage and grace through these next few months and years.

​YOU ARE VALUABLE BEYOND MEASURE. 


Amen ​

Mary Jo Halligan. 
V.L.R. & M.V.M. & V.W.A. Co-director. 
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Take a virtual seat and enjoy this powerful life practice. You are welcome !

16/6/2022

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A tool for your wellness toolkit. Get a pen and paper and follow my lead below. 

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Remember that transformation happens when you take action within your thoughts, words and actions. Follow along and do the practice, give it all you got full out and you will reap the rewards.

Write in the comments or / and your own personal writing journal.

Q: What do you most need currently to support your life ?

If you could consider and answer this in 4 ways.

You can choose to do two lists one for your own personal self and then a optional second one to focus on the needs of others.

“ you can only help others sustainably to the degree you can help yourself sustainably “

Break it down into 4 sections or paragraphs.

Physically ?

Mentally ?

Emotionally ?

Spiritually ?

If is time to become more clear on your own needs and that of one another so that we can receive more support where required most.

Thank you for taking a moment to consider your response and writing it down.

The vibrational universe responds to clarity and clearness of focus within your thoughts, words and actions.
In knowing clearly what you don’t want, helps you to become much more clear on what you really do want to experience.

Consider your responses in the positive focus of what you really do want and are ready to now receive more and more of into your life and for those around you.

For example experiencing a illness and feelings of exhaustion and intense discomfort in body - mind - emotions makes one simultaneously really desire and appreciate greater vitality, well-being, calm, peace, connection and balance.

If you can focus on the path of least resistance to your current circumstances and start working towards that which supports your well-being with better feeling thoughts and emotions, instead of focusing on the sickness and feeling of lack and regrets all day.

Then before long you will notice as you think more and more better feeling thoughts about yourself and your life and body etc you begin to relax into the journey with more trust and openness and acceptance and less and less resistance, worries and doubts. You open yourself to learning new sustainable well-being and lifestyle knowledge and start getting more inspired about the possibilities available. You start to move away from that which brings you down and move more towards towards that which lifts you up.

You even get excited at the real potentials for how things will begin to change in your life; with new thoughts , new lifestyle habits and the discovery of how you can respond to life circumstances instead of reacting unconsciously out of a primal fear for survival and a old habit of worry for the future.

All you really have to do is focus on and commit to that next step and then the next and the next.

Before long you are feeling more steady on a path that is enhancing your life instead of depleting you.

Yesssss , You are worthy of this. 

If your thoughts are full of all the things you don’t want, then I advise before you do the above list to first Empty out your mind of those thoughts by writing them all down before you do a second list as per my invitation and instructions above.

Emptying your mind of what you don’t want. 

Write down Question A: What am I now ready to release from my life experiences; from my thoughts, beliefs , body, mind and emotions ; from my inner speak and conversation with others ( everything that brings you down and makes you feel powerless and helpless , unworthy , lacking , everything you are so genuinely done with ) .... you fill in the gaps.

Write and write until you empty them out of your head ( old hard drive ) and make room for the clarity of writing your second list of what you are now ready to receive more of into your experience in body , mind, emotions and spirit. ( uploading the newest latest available hard drive so too speak ) .
You got this

Give it a go and let me know in the comments how you found it.

Come back in a month and let me know what has changed and improved in your experiences.

Namaste.

Mary Jo.
VLR co-creative director.
Harmonious well-being facilitator.
Transformational LIFE coach.

www.VibrantLiving.co.nz
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The real sickness is Fear, Stress, unresolved Trauma's and a distrust of the authentic SELF.

16/6/2022

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Masking up has become the new norm for many in N.Z. but is this really normal to restrict your airways because your mind is fearful of a consequence you were told to fear. Or is this the sickness of old trauma's begging to be healed ?
​Aaarrrggghhh, if this Industry pictured above does not seem so wrong and a pure distortion to what truly empowers and supports natural well-being in body, mind, spirit and emotions in harmony with self, other and the natural world. 
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I have to remind myself that some ... yikes too many for my liking, actually believe firmly in it and ones belief is powerful thus the placebo effect !

I know all about the power of beliefs after been brought up in a Catholic Irish culture. When I was a child I picked up the belief that I was sinful, unworthy, not good enough and never getting to heaven unless I went to confessions regularly to repent for my sins. I learnt to judge myself so harshly within my own mind. The voice of my inner critic is still something I am working with to tame, soften and become more gentle and loving toward my own tender heart. 

My favourite analogy of why people have such different thoughts and perspectives currently about what is true and false in the world is we are tuning in and listening to different radio stations ( With different frequency and perspectives and thus perceptions / beliefs on life ). Read more about this topic in my Blog here " We only regret the chances not taken ". LINK HERE.
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Nature is my favourite source of well-being. Nature does not judge. Nature helps us to rebalance body, mind, soul by calming our nervous system and all systems to work more harmoniously with one another just like a loving compassionate Creator GOD Source of life intended. Go into nature to replenish your SOUL.
I do often wonder what the heck is been fed on repeat into people’s minds to enact such a slow torture upon oneself and loved ones. I can't help but ponder these things when I watch people self inflict themselves with wearing a restriction breathing apparatus that limits the flow of oxygen and the healthy exchange of CO2 out of the body by willingly covering the mouth and nose. No doubt to appease and fit into society as a good citizen or so they think. My interpretation is little girls and boys in adult bodies still desperate to do everything right in the eyes of mummy and daddy so as to not get in trouble and get the gold star of approval. Of course, the difference is that mummy and daddy has become NZ mummy, smiling, self appointed" one source of truth " PM & Daddy Govt / Military complex. 

It is tempting to go listen to some mainstream media channels ( MSM ) but frankly when I do, I find it so non-inspiring, low vibes and so blah blah talking heads and mouths pieces for multi billion ~ trillion dollar corporations whom have there own both fascinating and disturbing vision for earths future and humanity. In short it simply does not resonate with my inner being and personal experiences of what uplifts us with vibrant health and well-being. 

We become what we think and fill our heads and bellies with. So discernment is key in these times to be aware of what is happening and yet not get too caught up in it that it effects one in a non helpful disempowering way. 
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The extend of the Trauma and DisTrust of ones natural innate SELF and how this gets translated to how one views and relates to their bodies. 

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Some around Nz have been spotted driving with doubling up on the masking and taken to the new style of wearing them on the chins. What Steve my Hubby jokingly refers to as wearing their winter chin warmers.

We got to keep our sense of humour with all of this. When we laugh we are out of the stress response and our hearts are open and it allows a good oxygen supply and exchange to the cells. That is definitely what I love about my cultural upbringing. Irish people have a great sense of silly daft humour to keep the laughter and lightness going ( the 'craic' as it is called in Ireland ) . I really do believe nowadays that this is what got our Irish  ancestry through a very harsh history at times and the introduction of a harsher version of the Roman Catholic Religion that infiltrated the land and subdued the people away from their natural abundant connection with the land, the fairies, the pagan ways of been attuned with the elements in more Celtic times. 


Least to say it is beyond bizarre for us wellness joyful folk and natural aligned healers ~ harmoniser of body mind soul choosing vibrant living to witness this source of what we perceive as an induced and for some more prolonged trauma on the body-mind-emotions-spiritual connection. 

Definition of 
trauma Resource LINK. 
1a: an injury (such as a wound) to living tissue caused by an extrinsic agent
b: a disordered psychic or behavioural state resulting from severe mental or emotional stress or physical injury
c: an emotional upset

To gain more insights and compassion for childhood Trauma and how that creates the dysfunctions within society, please take the time and make a donation towards watching the movie documentary. LINK HERE or / & listen to this Ted Talk. LINK HERE

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When you realise the power is truly within your own psyche, mind and chosen attitude and approach to life and living, it transforms your life and you stop giving your innate power. self esteem and well-being away. You stop needing to fit into systems that simply don’t support a free flow,  abundant, joyful, loving, harmonise humanity.

I asked a guy in the cafe in Kaikoura the other day how he was finding his most updated one. You know the one that looks like a penguin beak . He said he was finding his breathing more restricted and harder to breath because it was fitted more securely on the face around his mouth and nose . I left him with this statement as a joke in all seriousness ‘ what are they trying to do to us ( humanity ) trying to either turn us into penguins or robots. He laughed and I smiled and  walked away.

So kind
So F__ked up I say !

The benefits to healing your dysfunctional upbringing: Stories from a wonderful dysfunctional childhood which would become my greatest teacher of awareness, healing, discernment and authenticity once healed. 

I just happened to get a head start on all of this from a young age that helped shape whom I am today and the journey taken to get to here to know what I know deeply regardless of what others think or say. 

I grew up in a very dysfunctional way with both parents on a concoctions of medications for years. My younger brother once stated " we were not brought up, we were dragged up". Wow I thought , is that true as I still believed we had it pretty good compared to how I knew it could be after living in 2 children's homes from age 3yr - 6yrs. 

Both my parents were on many different kinds of medications and some of these were for the side effects of other meds. 
A few years ago before my father died, I read out to him on one of my visits, the small print that came with his medications, such small print that even if he wanted too he would not be able to read it. It listed the side effects of the medication. He stated after I completed reading out loud to him this list of side effects to his meds  " Shur they are all the reasons I am taking them in the first place ". Thankfully, as cranky and angry and harsh speaking as my father could be at times, he still had a endearing sense of humour. 

My Mum died 30yrs ago when I was 14yrs old when the meds she was given in a locked up psyche ward did not mix well together which brought on a sudden heart attack or so the autopsy revealed. When the lawyer finally accessed her medical files from the hospital, the lawyer told my father that part of them seemed to be missing.  Thus the family never took this further.

Personally I did not want to get involved in a Court battle of whom and what was at cause of my mothers death. I knew in my heart I needed to heal myself so I did not head down the path she did that landed her in the mental hospital shortly after I was born with postnatal depression. A depression that went from bad to worse with the only solution offered been different types of medications and electro shock treatments. Back then, there was no readily available services to support and educate on the needs for quality nutrition for the brain and nervous system, especially when a person is under excessive stress ( carrying and given birth to a baby ) and the stress of fearful negative thinking and living in an environment that felt unstable and unloving.

What creates fearful thinking ? Well at the core it is feeling unsafe, unprotected, unsupported, incapable, disconnected, confused, distrust, rejected and unloved. ( i.e past & present unresolved traumas ) . 


So witnessing much at a young age gave me the awareness and determination that I needed to find a better way to support my well-being and personal empowerment in life if I wanted to live a more happy joyful healed existence. I knew somehow that I would need to discover how to heal what ailed both my parents physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Thus, has been my journey the latter 20yrs, beginning with attending my 1st Hot Yoga class when I was 21 or 22yrs. Later it was really my travels to India and other places that really opened my mind and heart to the possibilities with meditations, healing modalities and been introduced to the traditional Hatha Yoga styles and living more authentically from your spiritual nature daily. 

When I was 27yrs old I had gone to my allopathic Doctor in Jersey, located in the Channel Island off the U.K.. He was such a lovely Doctor and tried to do his best for me and had put me on a second round of antibiotics. Half way through taking them, I had intense pain in my gut and my intuition was strong that the medication was not working for me and I needed to find something else asap. That was the day I booked my 1st alternative practitioner appointment and invested 50 U.K. pounds into my healing. That was a big deal for me as I grew up on a free medical card in Ireland and was not used of paying money to invest in my health. My culture has taught me that we kept that for alcohol in Ireland LOL. That was a real turning point on my empowering healing journey and I have never looked back and have had no need for taking medications in 17yrs. I even replaced the paracetamol tabs I use to take on the 1st and 2 days of getting my menstrual cycle with practicing meditations. It is incredible to feel how meditations and releasing resistance to the flow of life and the flow of our natural cycles can release the intense discomfort / pain / cramps and reset the body-mind to well-being and ease. Basically I learned to replace the resistance I had with more and more acceptance each month with the help of meditations. To our bodies and cells which are responding to every thought and felling we have this is profound and thus the miracle of healing is found. 

Over the years I also learnt to invest my money and resources of time, energy and commitment into the discovery of my self knowledge with trainings, self care practices and exploring natural healing modalities and approaches for body, mind, spirit and emotions. Through that, like many other passionate wellness peeps with fascinating stories of personal transformations, I ended up having invaluable experiences and resources to share with others and created my wellness biz in 2010 with launching Mountain View Massage day spa, 2015 Vibrant Living Retreat with hubby and 2017 Vibrant Wellness Academy to train and certified my own students in Holistic Intuitive Massage. ( LINK HERE ) 


Thus why I am so passionate about Self Care ... no more self sacrifice peeps !!! You and those you love are worthy of empowered wellness and living well. " You can't give what you ain't got " ! ! ! Care for self so you can refill your cup to full and overflowing and naturally extend this caring and love to others. That is how is really works in a sustainable world.  Resentments, bitterness and regrets all add to the dis-eases in a body. These emotions reflect where a person has not believed they have had the right or self worth to care for themselves or be cared for and follow their own hearts and passions and joy.

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WHAT IS REQUIRED TO TRULY HEAL AND WHY MANY WON'T CHOOSE THIS  ? 


You need to reclaim radical self responsibility for your life and lay down the victim, shame and blame games for self and others. Thus why many will not choose that path as it does take dedication, daily focus, making life changes, a willingness to forgive the past and having a strong desire to empower yourself with sustainable health and trust in a friendly universe, friendly earth, friendly humanity and most important of all a friendly body that you live in that houses your spirit on earth.

On this planet for many it can feel like going against the grain of family and friends if you really put your own needs first, especially if you have lived your entire life putting everyone else first and neglecting your own sacred self. Thus is it any wonder that part of your psyche is enraged which may express in sudden outburst of anger, sadness and a feeling of being lost.

It does take some courage, a deeper desire for change and building a healthy self worth. Sometimes it is actually concerns for how other people will respond to you that troubles you most if you actually put yourself first. You may fear letting people down or you may also be greatly attached to having people relay on you and your skills that you don't want to give that role up and focus more on your own needs. In this case it is developing a greater self value and self worth that is required to commit to self care and  more self love. 
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IS THERE A RIGHT OR WRONG CHOICE ? 

Each to there own of what one chooses ! As we advance in our Soul learning on earth and resolve our own issues and heal the unhealed  so we feel more whole. We develop a deeper compassion for self and others. We understand that everyone is on a unique soul journey of their own choosing and whom are we to judge another. This is also a reflection that we have released and resolved our own inner judgements and separations with our own self and psyches. 

In short there really is no right or wrong choices. However there is choices that creates very different kind of experiences.


Each is on a individual journey and a larger collective humanity one. The fork on the road just so happens to be more  apparent these days to two very unique looking types of earthly human experiences that are available to each one to choose. One is moving towards living in greater SOUL BODY MIND embodied harmony with the natural world and our own inner nature. The other is moving away from the natural world, body awareness and into a more ungrounded / disconnected from the earth and digitised synthetic version of reality.  

Personally I am aligned to creating technology that harmonises with our true human nature and enhances that in alignment with the recognition that we are SOUL incarnated beings on earth. That life on earth is gift to celebrate and enjoy and expand ourselves through. Not something to take for granted, make a burden of, destroy, take advantage of its resources for more profit and control or to simply turn our backs on from sheer apathy through lack of faith, connection, love and an addiction to suffering through lack of self worth and self knowledge. 
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FEAR, THE GREATEST VIRUS ON EARTH & OUR GREATEST SALVATION WHEN YOU FACE IT HEAD ON. 

It has been wowing over the latter 2 years to witness the power of the fear porn openly displayed around most areas of NZ.

Then there is those special places where people have had enough and stopped wearing or enforcing them on others.

Woohoo for those beginning to super seed the fear and distortions and reclaim self dignity again and choose living in the here and now more FULLY ALIVE.

The greatest fear  people are running from and trying to escape is death, change and transformations.

For any of us could die tomorrow but why put yourself on a torture table getting there. Is it worth it really !!!!


You can die suffering all the way to the grave or the crematorium as many would have you believe is perfectly normal to accept or you can die happy and satisfied with your life as you found the courage to face your fears, , humble your ego and choose to trust more in your true self ( heart -soul nature ) and thus have no regrets.

FORGIVING THE UNFORGIVABLE ~ SPEAKING THE UNSPOKEN TAKES COURAGE & A SURRENDERING TO THE HEART. 

Forgive them Father ~ Mother ~ God ~ Earth ~ Nature for they know not what they do when they turn there backs on you and hand their immense power over to a different kinda of narcissist altered egoic power claiming itself as the one source of truth.

" What you resist, will persist " ... I am so aware of the truth of this statement.  Life these days is a delicate balancing of been so fully aware of what is a NO for my heart and what is a YES and then focusing on the YES to the best of my ability while been attentive to my continuous healing~harmonising journey of body-mind-soul moving through a huge collective AWAKENING and shift of
​ consciousness on earth.
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However we must not stick our heads in the sand either. The HEALED is in fact that which has had the light of consciousness and acceptance upon it. It is becoming aware of what you were not aware of, acknowledging what had not been acknowledged, accepting that which had not been acceptable, expressing what has been repressed,  loving what cries out in the middle of the night to be felt with more consideration and caring for that which has felt rejected and abandoned. This is the healing, this is the awakening, this is the journey home to DIVINE LOVE & WHOLENESS. 
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Picture : Mary Jo & Steve . Taken before one of Steve's endurance races at the top of Golden Bay, NZ.
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" Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you respond " ... and wow has life ever been gifting up the goods and challenges on managing those responses.

I/ We / YOU learn so much about ourself and each other by becoming aware of how I / WE / YOU react unconsciously and respond more consciously to circumstances and events etc

Divine Blessings upon ALL and please please for the love of GOD and all that is GOODNESS don't lose your sense of humour over these times. 
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Compassionate Joyful Loving Blessings on all paths walked on earth.

Namaste 

Mary Jo
VLR co-creative director and well-being facilitator. 
www.VibrantLiving.co.nz

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    Our Blog is a resource for us at Vibrant Living to share the good news, news; that which supports our human empowerment, V.L. updates and wellness inspirations to seed new possibilities,  insights, hope and connections. 

    Most of all we intend to share the good vibes that enhance living a vibrantly empowered and creative life in body-mind-spirit. 

    Vibrant Living is our dream vision coming to life and it is our greatest honour and joy to have the capacity to offer our wellness services in our beautiful retreat sanctuary in the alpine village of Hanmer Springs, New Zealand. 

    We acknowledge we are living in some of the most wondrous and crazy years on planet earth. Years that are proving themselves to be years of great changes, life transitions and transformations. Years that  at times will challenge each one of us individually and collectively to dive deeper to the very core of us, with the aim to crack open our hearts, release the past and reveal something new and liberating.  

    We are each in so many different ways being challenged to review our understandings of life as we thought we knew it; uncover our highest values and core beliefs about ourself and our place, direction and purpose within this life. 

    However in the midst of the challenges, chaos, stressful living, over whelm, anxieties, daily pressures and shocks to the body-mind-emotional system is a great opportunity to grow in ways beyond anything we have realised.  Hence the wellness industry if one of the fasting growing industries on the planet as more and more people want to empower there health, fitness, vitality and general well being. 

    " When things seem to be falling apart, what if they are actually falling together " .

    At Vibrant Living we are here to be of support to those that resonant as a bridge of  authentic light;  lighting up with care, vibrancy and compassion the opportunities to release the old daily habits and paradigms that does not work anymore or are simply outdated in our modern world that is in fact birthing a new cosmic 26,000 year cycle of energies and vibrations onto our planet earth.  There is a much bigger picture to current events and we are each being asked to play our unique and relevant parts. 

    We are in a new galactic cycle in which humanity is being encouraged to co-create a new template of living that restores personal empowerment,   harmonious living, innate abundance and sustainable wellness in body, mind, emotions and spirit.

    It is a great paradigm shift and a very rewarding one for those who choose to open to the new possibilities and make heart centred & gut guided choices with trust being redeemed in ones own life guiding source once more to follow ones passions, purpose and joy.  

    Vibrant Living just happens to be ours and we feel blessed each and every day to embrace this beautiful gift of life and be of divine service to this glorious life we are co-creating. 

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    Picture: Mary Jo & Steve at the Launch of Vibrant Living Retreat & Day Spa May 21st 2015 in Hanmer Springs.

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